A personal project by X.M · Shanghai

Your local friend in Shanghai.

Friendly, practical help for travelers — from local life and language support to exploring the city together.

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Not a tour group. A person you can ask.

Shanghai Buddy is a small experiment started by X.M. It is for visitors who want practical local help or simply feel more comfortable exploring with someone who knows the city. Every request starts with a direct conversation with X.M.

What a Shanghai Buddy can help with

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Explore together

Neighborhood walks, cafés, food, shopping, museums or an ordinary local day — shaped around what you actually enjoy.

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Language & practical help

Menus, directions, phone calls, reservations and simple app-related problems that are harder without Chinese.

03

Arrival & local setup

Planning airport or station transfers, understanding local transport and sorting out small travel problems after you arrive.

Simple from the first message

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Tell X.M what you need

Send your dates, area, number of people and the kind of help you are looking for.

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Get a clear plan

We confirm the scope, buddy, meeting place, estimated time and price before you decide.

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Meet in a public place

Start somewhere easy and public. Pay only through the agreed method and keep your own travel documents.

Pilot pricing

From USD 15 / hour

For straightforward local companionship and language support. Transport, tickets, meals and complex errands are separate. You receive the full quote before agreeing.

Clear boundaries keep it safe

  • Not a dating, romantic or sexual service
  • Not a licensed tour-guide, medical, legal or emergency service
  • No holding passports, bank cards or account passwords
  • Adults only; public meeting places are preferred

During this pilot, X.M personally discusses every request. If another local buddy is involved, you will know who they are and the full price before booking.

Have a Shanghai question? Start with a message.

You do not need to know exactly what service to book. Tell X.M what is happening, and we will see whether Shanghai Buddy is the right fit.

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